How to Squirt: A Guide to Unlocking Intense Orgasms
With your palm facing upwards, you insert one (or two) fingers into the vagina. Make sure you’re not too deep in, stop at knuckle level. Okay, so you know what squirting is all about and how to prepare yourself for the big event. I know you’re not in kindergarten, but there’s nothing wrong with a friendly reminder!
Combine this with fingering to create a textured, unique sensation. The contrast between your fingers and the pearls heightens her pleasure, building toward an intense climax. Once there, softly twirl your finger around it, starting slow and gentle. Gradually increase pressure based on her comfort, as some women find this deeply pleasurable, while others may find it too intense. Use both hands to glide over her vulva, stimulating the entire area with smooth, gentle movements.
The Jockey position is great for those women who prefer to let their partner take over and do most of the work. Your partner can run the head of their penis all along the front wall of your vagina (including your G Spot) with each thrust. Of course, your partner can change the angle they hit your G Spot like in the illustration below (although some women may find this angle too intense).
The butterfly sex position is great for making a woman ejaculate as the upward thrust of your penis comes in direct contact with her G-spot stimulating the Skene’s gland. Before you follow the steps so you know how to make a girl squirt, it’s important to accept she may not be able to squirt. How to squirt for a woman can come with a lot of internal and external expectations and cause her to be disappointed if she doesn’t. Dr. Wendasha Jenkins Hall is an educator, speaker, and consultant who provides a fresh, shameless take on sex and relationships.
If you feel something spongy and ribbed, that’s it. I know I’m close when I hear crazy wet slurping sounds coming from my box and I feel the incredible urge to bear down on whatever is inside me. Some people experience this as a similar feeling to needing to pee. I have a hard time squirting when my [vagina] is full, so me saying, „Pull out! Pull out! Pull out!“ is normally a surefire sign that I’m about to squirt. Sometimes there’s a delay of up to ten seconds after withdrawal before I come.
Squirting woman squirt, also known as ‘female ejaculation,’ isn’t necessarily what you see in porn. Female ejaculate is when the urethral sponge (G-spot or Skene’s gland) becomes highly aroused and fills up with fluid. The fluid inside the urethral sponge that leaves the body is what’s called squirting.